From Love not For Love

Have you ever felt the pissy-ness of the people pleaser?

I have. I actually wrote this last year, but it can definitely creep back up. Now that I recognize it and have the tools, it doesn’t take over like it used to.

As I try to be all the things I feel I need to be to keep everyone happy and safe, I feel the pissed-off-ness of myself rising.

I pause….

and realize

in this state of be-ing:

“a pissed off people pleaser,”

NO ONE is being pleased.

Whatever I give or do

is not truly coming from love or service.

It’s coming from un-aligned pleasing due to “presumed” expectations…

Which is not good for anyone!

SO… I go into my body and ask…

What do you feel?

What feels good to you?

What’s in alignment for you to do or NOT to do?

It’s all okay.

There’s no one you need to save.

You don’t need to enable.

You don’t need to sacrifice.

Everything and everyone is okay.

Just breathe and be.

Be the truth of who you are.

No expectations.

No pleasing.

Simply be-ing.

And when you CHOOSE

from a space of alignment

to show up and do these things…

then, and only then

will they be done from a space of love

where all receive,

including YOU.

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Do things FROM love, not for love.